Obviously I had the "making money" part down. So why was I still struggling? The answer...I still had a poverty mindset. So today's smart money advice isn't going to be about how to make more or save more or invest better. It's about improving your money mindset. Because if you continue to go through life with an attitude of lack, it won't matter how much money you make. You won't be able to keep it.
And you do want to have more money...right? Who wouldn't like to be rich? I'm sure we all want to create wealth and abundance in our lives. If you don't believe me, just ask Google how to make more money and see how many hits you get! There are more than enough website out there wanting you to spend your money so they can show you how to make more. Literally trillions! But none of them teach you how to keep it once you have it. If you learned how to do that you might not purchase their next big thing guaranteed to make you more money!
Most of us get our attitude towards money from our parents. If you read my blog post What My Parents Taught Me About Money, you will understand why I struggled. I was basically taught how to be poor. And it was a lesson I learned very well.
The good news is that you can overcome the lessons you learned. You can basically reprogram your entire belief system around money. It takes time. It takes effort. But it can happen.
So what do we do to combat our negative programming? Here's some tips:1. Be aware. That's the first step. Acknowledge that you do it and make a note, mental or otherwise, every time you catch yourself.
2. Identify where the thoughts are coming from. For example, the "people like us weren't meant to be rich" comes straight from my mother and has no basis in fact. There are people in my family that have done quite well. Why can't I?
3. Turn it around. Whenever you catch yourself thinking a negative thought, replace it with the opposite. "Money doesn't grow on trees" becomes "I am prosperous and have more than enough to meet my needs." "People like us weren't meant to be rich" becomes "I am a 6-figure earner." When I catch myself about to make a poor spending decision (like another pair of shoes or a dog!), I remind myself that I am not my mother and I now make smart money decisions.
Our past lessons don't have to become part of who we are. Keep the good stuff. Replace the negative. Positive self talk and affirmations can help you reframe your thinking.
Ready? Repeat after me.
"I am prosperous and have more than enough to meet my needs.
"I am a 6-figure earner."
"I will make more money this month than last."
"I effortlessly attract abundance."
"I am finding new income streams."
"I use money to create a better life."
"I release my money worries."
"I am financially empowered."
"I enjoy making money."
"I will have zero debt."
"I look at my finances without fear."
"I make money while I sleep."
"I am going to make a crap-ton of money today!"
"I am smart when it comes to making important financial decisions."
"I have money making ideas all the time."
"I have wealth in all areas of my life."
"I am worth the money I charge."
"I have multiple streams of passive income."
"I am a rich, powerful woman" (Or man)
